No Resistence!!!

When I Resist the moments that are meant to just be and try to impose our self obsessed impositions that are not me and in the way end up losing which is never becoming us.
Their is freedom in letting go!!! Peace in the flow !!! their is nothing to be achieved as everything is already achieved .We have just to imbibe the explicitly of the moments
without actually judging them. As Tao says the mere sending of us is a purpose in itself , we are to just align ourselves with least effort to that source and the rest is achieved in eternity . When We go placid & defenseless in the vastness of moments our true potentiality is revealed to us without much struggle. Most of our energy is wasted in combating & defensing ourselves & mind thinks that its doing a good job by showing you actual picture what it does not takes into account is the hidden dimensions & dynamism of a circumstance. it repels anything boring or ego defeating because thats how we are trained since our childhood ...To defend our personality in school, among peers, among siblings ,among families then when we grow up we are a bunch of defenders battling so many battles t one point not realizing that its draining our vital energy in the process.So We need to do lot of unlearning & self cleansing before we can really launch our brand in the world.Most of us read lot of books & imbibe ideas without ever acting on them & even if we act on few ,because of our previous karmic falsies it always drags us back from where we started. So letting go & allowing the Source to take its course may be one of the most radical change we can bring this year.And why not if till now nothing big is happening because of our own effort then lets try the other way by allowing nature to act through us, just trusting that if it can take care & bring us here from nothing with absolute perfectness then it can also drive us ahead with great vitality & rejuvenation. Just Once in a while keep aside ego from your actions & go with the flow!!

Whacky smile!!!

I was weary eyed looking for a smile to come in my life, kept waiting for 10000 miles.
Since I was 15 years till now 55 my eyes felt like Rocky Mountain waiting for my beloved pie, she will arrive one day ,though she came innumerable times,my weary eyes kept on waiting for a thirsty smile.When I was In school I had crush on several Rosy cool, silently I waited for them to smile, they gave a grin so wild but never bothered to gave me a smile.I went into College with ever beaming wacky eyes hoping for another smile.
Several sombre Monroe lend their hands for a friend never willing to share their heart for that haunted eternal smile. I then married someone Hoping to find that smile, I found a trustful wife, beautiful mother with a tinge of amazing laughs but still kept on waiting for that rare divine heart warming smile. Again I met someone on the street who looked like the one meant for me ,hungry with thirsty soul gave my heart for that everlasting smile. The Smile didn't last long my quench getting ever strong I left two sacred wives just for the sake of that whacky smile .Now I am caught with cancer rusting my body with pain ,lying on bed alone with no one to take me home ever wondering why I left two beautiful soul just to end deserted for one whacky smile. . . . .

Dealing with Self-banishing - How to live with Surrender

Take notice when self-criticism appears.
A certain thing acts as a trigger before you reproach yourself. You have cultivated a pattern where you subconsciously react to a situation. Becoming aware of your thoughts and feelings is the beginning of correcting your habit. Pause for a moment and listen to your internal critics. What are you saying to yourself?
Repeat to yourself; to err is human & forgive & forget

Boldly question yourself.
Is your mind chattering some old recordings of whatever bygones? Whose voice is it? Is it yours, your parents or someone who used to condemn you? Ask your inner self what it is trying to achieve? Have a conversation with yourself and boldly keep questioning each remarks and judgments.

Use different words to describe your experiences.
Words or the language you use can make or break you. When you disapprove yourself, you use words. The words affect your emotions and body sensations and then affect your state of mind.

Learn to use different words to describe your emotions and experiences. When you make a mistake, stop saying that you are stupid or useless. Instead say something that doesn't define you as incompetent.

Isn't it better if you say, "Okay, here a little boo boo. I'll do better the next time." It will help you change your state, laugh at yourself and lightens things up. When you are in a better mood, you can think well and find solutions.

Accept that there's no failure, just feedback.
When something goes wrong or if you have made a mistake, accept that as a feedback. It's just not the right strategy. Try another.

Refuse to give yourself a bad time.
Life and people are sometimes unfair. Look and find the positive instead of looking at what's wrong with you. What can you learn from the experience? It is no point giving yourself a hard time and feeling bad.

Instead of Subject Referral/object referral simply Observe.Watch the Punisher,witness
Just step aside from the chatter as its not you/but your old mental map which will take time & fall on its own if you do not feed it with your emotions. Become a monk while you do this. Remind yourself of surrender/raise both your arms in act to show it. it will vanish to leave you fresh.

Success is never final, failure is never fatal!!!

Whan John Wooden gave these quotes he meant the underlying principles followed by millions of successful fellow beings on the planet.A setback in one area /subject/profession / affair never means end of the world.Most so called Failure people convict /confound/restrict/limit/electrocuting/shutting down/hiding themselves into darkness because of one or few minor or major failures in life. This basic principle of not giving much voice to failure tone in a journey,allowing oneself to learn & move on is profoundly developed in so called successful people in life.They might have failed thousands times more than average person does but they quickly turn their focus & determination in something they are good & efficient at rather than trying to mount repeated attacks with the same elements & faculties they had always put to use in the First place.Millions of e.g from Edison(failed in his class) Dhiru Bhai Ambani( banished by his father for not following his goals) , Bill gates( college drop out;failure in one angle) Abraham Lincoln( greatest failure in History before becoming president)to anybody you name it.They all used their potential despite repeated failures in one field & they were always soft on themselves without exiling or banishing themselves into darkness.The Sooner you can let go your past failure of any kind, forgiving yourselves completely in the process, the faster you will reach towards a bigger & brighter opportunity waiting for you in the line.Unless you keep your eyes off the setbacks,you cannot look for opportunities coming your way every moment.Failing on one side means the other side needs to be shined, or other angle needs to be sighted rather than brooding over the same event all over your life.
Thats why following principle of surrender you easily get detached/never attached to the end result( any how its going to drown itself with time) at the same time believing and enjoying your karma(work) gives you profound satisfaction & delight.
At the end its never confrontation between you and the society but you and your god/soul that matters most. . .

MIND GAMES!!! IT BOILS DOWN TO HOW YOU USE & CON/FUSE IT!!!

If you can convince your mind of any undertaking that it is worth its effort & you direct it with absolute clarity along with intermittent success to prove that you are going on the right track ,then Mind does exactly whats it is asked for and you are on the path to unimaginable achievement. But the question is how to bring your mind to that point of Applied Faith.This has been of much debate since ancient times.The word Passion which is fore bearer of Happiness & peace has its origin deep inside the mental faculty.
No one knows from where it emanates but if I say it can be generated by constant exposure to certain things that you believe in & convince that it will work & produce maximum benefit of your time,the mind will certainly take the bait & mix it with passion & purpose to give you optimum results.So whatever happens in your environment since you attain intelligence works physiologically by balancing mechanism in your mind as the whole body has the ability to balance it according to its use.Every information filtering thus adds at subconscious & instinctive level to evolve into a map that is your boundary in which you work your whole life.The territory of this map is what you perceive & percept to act in future.This Map is your DNA towards achieving everything in life and you have the ability to expand & contract this map according to your exposure & faith in tackling it.What strikes the Deepest Chord of your brain & soul,generates maximum Power...Know your Deeper Elements & thus strike it often to slip into Infinite Intelligence. . .

Licking your wound is Loosing, F*** off past & Living Present is whats sets your winning tone.

A whole lot of web sites & business runs around telling people to turn their thinking to turn their Life. Stick to positive thoughts no matter how & you will be taken over board to next life. But all these positive culture merely Lifts 1 or 2 person rest remains where they are & keep on buying these positive pop corn till they are dead or themselves convert into one of positive psychology Gurus. What people fails to realize is that every one is different with unique set of personalities and hence they need individual set of approach. some people no matter what keeps their one leg in their past ditches while try to move ahead on another leg. They don't understand that until they let go off their past mistakes & memories it will keep them bumping into same pit hole where they lived. The elevation should always be gradual rather than sudden.
All the concepts in their mind has to be rewritten & refreshed & allow patience & perseverance to work through trouble hours in ascending the ladder of hope for future.
The transformation is always slow & most of the fellows drop before they see the results or change their course before manifesting. However the truth is, we have some excellent gifts while also inherit few deficiencies.Lets us work with surrender realizing our gifts without doubt in them as in the end we all want to die peacefully.Amen

There is a Looser & a Winner lying within you!!! everymoment!!! How you Choose is upto you!!!

Yes Thats true!!! We have both these personalities looking eye to eye into each other;
every moment!!!! So who gets the pie is determination of choice!!! But does every time you fail, you can afford to ignore ocean of negativity coming your way & looks the improbable winner point of view!!! Its really difficult but not impossible..we have several gifts humanity has given us that we can channel through our mind & allow only possible given gifts to manifest with optimum potentiality.

The Surrender way is One of them where an Observer is appointed to Look at your situation be it success/failure with ease & equality never getting drifted into any of them,never trying to grasp either of them ,Letting it go as it will always Go, and moving into next moment with absolute Freedom expecting another Gift (of failure or success) coming your way .This is the Only way counted by great epic like Gita & great mens like Buddha. Todays people like Jim MacLaren & Emmanuel Yeboah & innumerable others in history of our time had shown unimaginable courage & potential at the face of adversity to emerge as great survivors of their time...

EMOTIONAL ENTANGLEMENT!!!

When In Every day life we indulge in thoughts from our past about how some thing went wrong in our relationships, stepping into it then swirling deep into oblivion defending & fighting our actions & reactions all in Imagination!!! How many times you have found yourself juggling with these emotional Nightmares....Thinking that its our state of mind we have no control & thus generating feelings & vibrations out of sync with what we are there by falling in vicious cycle of misery & helplessness. Creating Conditional Happiness by asking if that person may have acted in certain way that might have pleased my ego thus never ending scarcity of lasting relationship.All this sub-consciously rob us of our ability to make a defining equation with people around us.
everyday we undergo 64000 thoughts and out of these 95 percent are previous days thoughts. Again 80% of these thoughts are i.e 45000 are negative origin ...Imagine we can involve ourselves into fruitful relationships simply by not judging people of their negative habits, taking as it is because we do not know 100% that they are true & Energizing Good thoughts about them when ever thought encounters them...Imagine In more than 60 years of our lives How Many good relationship do we carry with ourselves . We can always improve on them by genuinely getting interested in people coming in our daily lives...Starting from today....Now....

TIME MACHINE!!!

Most people in todays eras are Multi tasking. In what??? Career, Home,friends,philanthropy, ??? No...They think their Movement As Multi-tasking & Skip Friends, Family Meetings,Festivals,Exercise Saying They Are Saving Time...As World is moving too fast...But Are We Really Saving time...Spending time in your nuclear family & career; is saving time.Skipping talks with neighbor is Saving time.Not Able to enjoy minimum basic things as your breakfast,Lunch ,fun talk with your Life Partner is saving time...All postponing At the End of the career... Sad to say but this Multi-tasking is taking the sheen out of our life. . Not Able TO Reflect On our Lives Is That What We call saving time.. The More Sophisticated we become The Less time we will have for ourselves,for natural things & more we will get away with Realities...And who are having this time starvation.Not upper class & lower class;They have lot of time enjoying what they do,Its Only the Whole Bunch of middle class that has No Time..
WOW MYSTICAL TIME WE CAN NEVER CATCH HOLD OF YOU....