Dil to Baccha Hai!!(Heart Is & Will Be A Child For Ever)

The Song By Master Craftsmen GulZar ( Epitome of Indian Cinema) Strikes at basic essentiality of Human Essence & Existence...Do our Heart ever grows old, Does it has rights to love for ever or it should be subjected to ageing & worn out as our body does...Its War between Mind & Soul...One which gets demented & the other Grows beautiful every passing day .Its Conflict of opposites that surfaces everynow and then which is nothing but absolute truth. The parameters & Boundaries that our mind & Society limits has a far reaching consequences on Human Mind.In the Similar vein a female which Clears her menopause does not ever clears her sensuality & Love for another soul .But Still One has to go through Reality which trounces fiction .But every now and then their arises a revolt by the human faculty of Heart which is born for love and nothing else .The Rest of superficiality dies off with time.....If ever the Mind allows the Heart to Overtake itself , we could be and would be far more happy in Life than what we are!!!!!

HighWay of Information !!!

You absolutely get Lost in this High Way ...Our Minds which appreciates ideas & innovation is today overburdened by ideas flowing to us through different medias & challenging our mere existence...We are overwhelming ourselves in a single room with enormous possibilities flowing in front of us through internet & cable media which is in its entirety robbing our essence of peace & harmony in some senses. So there must be some full stop or guiding force to allow only relevant media to surface across mind .but then there is danger of leaving behind of opportunities if we don't follow this information traveling greater than speed of light. although internet has empowered all & sundry & made an innovative mind working form back offices or garage to become CEOs but one has to tap only essentials & weed out the garbage in the process otherwise we are in danger of destroying our own valuable time in the process...

Life is Football Game !!!

The winner exist with the Loser; both are spectrum of same phenomenon.As the king lives with the servant so is the kind exist with the ruthless. All are and has to be part of a being in order to create a balance; the perfect harmony starts from balance of opposites. In a Football match there is forward players & then there is defenders. to win the match every player has to perform at its best...If only forward plays then defenders lose the rhythm and vice versa. Similarly in life we have to play on all sides , one time as defender while other as forward , and the importance to appreciate the existent of both devour us from being entrapped in any one of them .So that we can move ahead with singularity .Those who do not understand the dynamics keep on either fighting or defending without ever wining or loosing and enjoying any of them.Play your match ,win or lose ,imbibe & celebrate ...That is the meaning & that is the purpose ..

No Resistence!!!

When I Resist the moments that are meant to just be and try to impose our self obsessed impositions that are not me and in the way end up losing which is never becoming us.
Their is freedom in letting go!!! Peace in the flow !!! their is nothing to be achieved as everything is already achieved .We have just to imbibe the explicitly of the moments
without actually judging them. As Tao says the mere sending of us is a purpose in itself , we are to just align ourselves with least effort to that source and the rest is achieved in eternity . When We go placid & defenseless in the vastness of moments our true potentiality is revealed to us without much struggle. Most of our energy is wasted in combating & defensing ourselves & mind thinks that its doing a good job by showing you actual picture what it does not takes into account is the hidden dimensions & dynamism of a circumstance. it repels anything boring or ego defeating because thats how we are trained since our childhood ...To defend our personality in school, among peers, among siblings ,among families then when we grow up we are a bunch of defenders battling so many battles t one point not realizing that its draining our vital energy in the process.So We need to do lot of unlearning & self cleansing before we can really launch our brand in the world.Most of us read lot of books & imbibe ideas without ever acting on them & even if we act on few ,because of our previous karmic falsies it always drags us back from where we started. So letting go & allowing the Source to take its course may be one of the most radical change we can bring this year.And why not if till now nothing big is happening because of our own effort then lets try the other way by allowing nature to act through us, just trusting that if it can take care & bring us here from nothing with absolute perfectness then it can also drive us ahead with great vitality & rejuvenation. Just Once in a while keep aside ego from your actions & go with the flow!!

Whacky smile!!!

I was weary eyed looking for a smile to come in my life, kept waiting for 10000 miles.
Since I was 15 years till now 55 my eyes felt like Rocky Mountain waiting for my beloved pie, she will arrive one day ,though she came innumerable times,my weary eyes kept on waiting for a thirsty smile.When I was In school I had crush on several Rosy cool, silently I waited for them to smile, they gave a grin so wild but never bothered to gave me a smile.I went into College with ever beaming wacky eyes hoping for another smile.
Several sombre Monroe lend their hands for a friend never willing to share their heart for that haunted eternal smile. I then married someone Hoping to find that smile, I found a trustful wife, beautiful mother with a tinge of amazing laughs but still kept on waiting for that rare divine heart warming smile. Again I met someone on the street who looked like the one meant for me ,hungry with thirsty soul gave my heart for that everlasting smile. The Smile didn't last long my quench getting ever strong I left two sacred wives just for the sake of that whacky smile .Now I am caught with cancer rusting my body with pain ,lying on bed alone with no one to take me home ever wondering why I left two beautiful soul just to end deserted for one whacky smile. . . . .

Dealing with Self-banishing - How to live with Surrender

Take notice when self-criticism appears.
A certain thing acts as a trigger before you reproach yourself. You have cultivated a pattern where you subconsciously react to a situation. Becoming aware of your thoughts and feelings is the beginning of correcting your habit. Pause for a moment and listen to your internal critics. What are you saying to yourself?
Repeat to yourself; to err is human & forgive & forget

Boldly question yourself.
Is your mind chattering some old recordings of whatever bygones? Whose voice is it? Is it yours, your parents or someone who used to condemn you? Ask your inner self what it is trying to achieve? Have a conversation with yourself and boldly keep questioning each remarks and judgments.

Use different words to describe your experiences.
Words or the language you use can make or break you. When you disapprove yourself, you use words. The words affect your emotions and body sensations and then affect your state of mind.

Learn to use different words to describe your emotions and experiences. When you make a mistake, stop saying that you are stupid or useless. Instead say something that doesn't define you as incompetent.

Isn't it better if you say, "Okay, here a little boo boo. I'll do better the next time." It will help you change your state, laugh at yourself and lightens things up. When you are in a better mood, you can think well and find solutions.

Accept that there's no failure, just feedback.
When something goes wrong or if you have made a mistake, accept that as a feedback. It's just not the right strategy. Try another.

Refuse to give yourself a bad time.
Life and people are sometimes unfair. Look and find the positive instead of looking at what's wrong with you. What can you learn from the experience? It is no point giving yourself a hard time and feeling bad.

Instead of Subject Referral/object referral simply Observe.Watch the Punisher,witness
Just step aside from the chatter as its not you/but your old mental map which will take time & fall on its own if you do not feed it with your emotions. Become a monk while you do this. Remind yourself of surrender/raise both your arms in act to show it. it will vanish to leave you fresh.

Success is never final, failure is never fatal!!!

Whan John Wooden gave these quotes he meant the underlying principles followed by millions of successful fellow beings on the planet.A setback in one area /subject/profession / affair never means end of the world.Most so called Failure people convict /confound/restrict/limit/electrocuting/shutting down/hiding themselves into darkness because of one or few minor or major failures in life. This basic principle of not giving much voice to failure tone in a journey,allowing oneself to learn & move on is profoundly developed in so called successful people in life.They might have failed thousands times more than average person does but they quickly turn their focus & determination in something they are good & efficient at rather than trying to mount repeated attacks with the same elements & faculties they had always put to use in the First place.Millions of e.g from Edison(failed in his class) Dhiru Bhai Ambani( banished by his father for not following his goals) , Bill gates( college drop out;failure in one angle) Abraham Lincoln( greatest failure in History before becoming president)to anybody you name it.They all used their potential despite repeated failures in one field & they were always soft on themselves without exiling or banishing themselves into darkness.The Sooner you can let go your past failure of any kind, forgiving yourselves completely in the process, the faster you will reach towards a bigger & brighter opportunity waiting for you in the line.Unless you keep your eyes off the setbacks,you cannot look for opportunities coming your way every moment.Failing on one side means the other side needs to be shined, or other angle needs to be sighted rather than brooding over the same event all over your life.
Thats why following principle of surrender you easily get detached/never attached to the end result( any how its going to drown itself with time) at the same time believing and enjoying your karma(work) gives you profound satisfaction & delight.
At the end its never confrontation between you and the society but you and your god/soul that matters most. . .